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Treatment: medication, therapy and family
Why medication is the foundation, what happens when it is stopped, how to raise side effects, and what therapy, family and planning a pregnancy add.
Medication is the foundation
In bipolar disorder, medication is not only for a crisis. Most treatment is maintenance: keeping mood stable and lowering the chance of new episodes. For that, psychiatrists use mood stabilisers and some antipsychotics that also stabilise mood, sometimes in combination. Some of these medicines need regular blood tests, to check the level in your blood and how your kidneys, thyroid or liver are doing.
Finding the right combination can take months and a few changes. That is frustrating, but it is common and does not mean nothing works for you. The more your doctor knows about your history, your signs and your routine, the easier it is to adjust.
Why so many people stop, and what happens
The reasons make sense. You have been well for months and feel you no longer need it. You miss the energy of hypomania. You have put on weight, your thinking feels slower, or you feel ashamed of taking psychiatric medication. Or you simply forget. None of these reasons is silly, and all of them deserve to be told to your doctor plainly.
What studies show is that stopping on your own, especially all at once, sharply raises the risk of a new episode in the months that follow. If you want to stop or cut down, bring it to your appointment: risks can be discussed, treatment adjusted and, when it makes sense, reduced slowly and with support. To avoid missing doses, it helps to tie them to something fixed in your day, such as brushing your teeth, and to set an alarm.
Side effects belong in the consulting room
Tremor, thirst, drowsiness, weight gain, nausea, lower sex drive, a feeling of being switched off: if anything like this happens, say so. Some effects ease with time, others change with an adjustment made by your doctor, and others justify switching medicine. Only the person who prescribes can decide that safely.
Some signs call for same-day contact with your doctor or a health service: severe vomiting or diarrhoea, a tremor that gets much worse, confusion, difficulty walking or speaking, a skin rash or fever soon after starting a new medicine. Ask your psychiatrist what the warning signs are for the medicine you take and what to do if you become dehydrated.
An antidepressant on its own can be risky
In bipolar depression, an antidepressant used without a mood stabiliser can, in some people, set off a high or a mixed state, or make episodes come faster. That is why treating bipolar depression differs from treating ordinary depression. If another doctor is about to prescribe you an antidepressant, tell them you have bipolar disorder.
This does not mean antidepressants are forbidden. Psychiatrists may use them in specific situations, with care and follow-up. If you already take one, do not stop because of this text: talk to whoever prescribed it. And let them know if you notice less sleep, speeding up or irritability after starting.
Therapy, psychoeducation and family
Medication works better when it comes with knowledge. Psychoeducation means learning about your own condition, in a group or one to one: signs, rhythms, medicines, triggers. Together with therapies such as cognitive behavioural therapy, social rhythm therapy and family-focused therapy, it reduces relapses and helps you act earlier when an episode starts.
Family can help a great deal or get in the way without meaning to. Constant criticism, watching every move and arguments about medication raise stress at home, and stress weighs on mood. When family understand the condition, know the signs and know what has been agreed, home becomes calmer. If you can, bring someone from home to an appointment or to a family group.
Plan a pregnancy with your doctor
Having children is possible with bipolar disorder. But pregnancy, and above all the first months after birth, carry a higher risk of episodes, and some medicines need to be switched or adjusted before conception. Ideally, plan with your psychiatrist and obstetrician a few months before trying.
If a pregnancy was not planned, do not stop your medication suddenly out of fear: stopping all at once also carries risk, for you and for the baby. Book a conversation with your psychiatrist straight away. And agree a plan with your family for after the birth, with protected nights of sleep whenever possible.
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